It's too bad the web site, dontdatethisguy.com came down when it did, which, I think was a couple of years ago when I saved this profile. But it's a good thing we can post up here and elsewhere, about guys that were profiled up there, to share the information. No, I never knew him or met him, and hope not to. The problem is, whoever profiled him back then did not mention his age in the main profile, so I hope she sees this and tells us his true age as I had to guess one for him and my guess was partly based on his allegedly having been in AA for +20 years. :
“Tom can be quite the charmer. He usually will find the young women he preys on off the internet. He found me off cupid.com. My mother was smart enough to look him up on Iowa Courts Online. I will go over what you can find on there. A divorce, his ex took him to court for been nearly $10,000 behind on child support which he also spent about 30 days in jail for, his house was repoed, among other things. But what I found most disturbing was three or four cases with this young woman. He abused her and she had a no contact order against him. When I asked him about it he said the woman was a nut job and he had done nothing wrong. He also explained he had changed his ways. I made the mistake of believing him which I do regret because he raped me. After the termination of our relationship I sought out the other woman he had done this to. She told me he had beaten, raped, mentally and emotionally abused her. Isolated her from friends and family members. She told me one night he split her head open like a melon. Before he would take her to the hospital he made her take a shower. When they got there he made her tell everyone that she slipped in the shower. She also told me of the woman he dated after her. Tom broke that girl’s arm.. among other things. He has also been a part of AA for +20 years which is longer than I have been alive. Alcohol is also the fuel to the abusive fire. If you are seeing Tom or plan on seeing Tom. DON’T! Get out while you still can. He is a charmer but it’s an act. He will tell you he has changed but he hasn’t. DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID!” |
