It's too bad the web site, dontdatethisguy.com came down when it did, which, I think was a couple of years ago when I saved this profile. But it's a good thing we can post up here and elsewhere, about guys that were profiled up there, to share the information. No, I never knew him or met him, and hope not to. Whoever posted about him I think left out his age on this profile, so I hope he or she sees this to tell us his true age if I mistakenly guessed him as older or younger than he really is. I can only imagine how crestfallen those who profiled cheaters on dontdatethisguy felt, after they went to the effort/pains to tell all about the guys, only to never to find their carefully written profiles gone. To me, it would be a disconfirming thing to happen, and I felt sorry for some of the women who posted, that is why I quoted some of the profiles that were once on that site.:
“I fell in love with a man who I thought was the hottest thing walking in my home town. Little did I know he felt he was god’s gift to the world. He took me to my first 76ers game, brought me my first car, taught me how to drive, we moved into my first apartment together. After I started finding text messages from unsaved from females (n I guess I tried to deal with that) but when I found the cell phone in our car and I asked for my keys to MY apartment back that’s when the violence began! Long story short, I got a PFA against him, he ruined my clothes and my (then 3-yr-old daughter) clothes threw half her bedroom set out the windows. I got thrown out of my apartment found out I was pregnant by him and that he gave me gonorrhea and Chlamydia which helped me to later lose the baby. I started writing him trying to get some closure (but also doing me on the outside). When he came home in April he proposed to me and I said yes (stupidly) the whole time we were engaged everything was fine he rubbed my feet, he’d call and check on me take my daughter to the park it seemed like he was changing all the way around. Until after we got married and I got sick and couldn’t work now he was paying for everything and every time we’d get into an argument he’d take a car from me, or kick me out, or threaten to file for divorce. The last time was the last time. He went to the shore (which was supposed to be a family event until he got pissed off) so I took my/my daughter’s things and called my aunt that lives 2 hrs away to come get us until I can figure something out. I canceled our new apartment/ I took off my ring and my phone doesn’t get any service where I’m at. The only worry I have is that the little things I did leave (because they were in the car he took to the shore) will be destroyed or that if I were to ever go back to my hometown that he’d find me and I am afraid of him. All his exs tried to warn me but I believed Kevin no matter what he’d say, he could tell me the sky is orange and I’d believe him idk why though. Now I’m trying to put my life back together and figure out me and my daughter’s next move which I don’t have many options because he’s the bread winner in the marriage as of now. Please do yourself a favor if you live anywhere in the 19401 area, don’t date Kevin Ringgold Jr. AKA Stu” |
