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“Ted Wilson was born March 5, 1974 in Montana and grew up in Salt Lake City, Utah. He attended Westminster, the University of Utah, and BYU where he finally got his bachelor’s degree in Japanese and finance or business or some such BS (which shows his typical inability to commit, not even to a school). He continued his education (JD/MBA) at Arizona State. I met him while he was at Arizona State. I will leave out all the gory details and jump straight to the end of the story. After dating a year, we broke up following a trip home to Salt Lake City to spend Christmas with his family, and after back door sex in his bed at his mom’s house, he told me he’d ‘rather spend his life alone than married to me.’ Other favorite Tedisms: ‘It would negatively impact my career if I married you.’ ‘I don’t want to be involved in your decisions for your future.’ Were these the only words I heard from him, I would have thrown his ass to the curb immediately, but typical of any emotional abuser, he’d pepper those in between kind, loving words; everything would be fine, next thing you know, it would feel like I just got kicked in the teeth and then he would follow the emotional blows with ‘I’m so sorry I made you feel unloved. I love you so much.’ Obviously. Because those are the kinds of things men in love say. A year after we broke up he came back claiming to be ready to get married and that ‘I was the one.’ He flew out to my house, then in Houston, screwed me for four days, left, and then said, ‘I don’t care if you never talk to me again’ because I had the gall to ask him what the next step was for our relationship. HE USED ME AND THREW ME AWAY. Naturally, I wrote him up on this site. TWO YEARS LATER, he came back into my life to ask me to take down my post, all of which was pure fact, because other women were asking him about it and it made him look bad! I didn’t make him look bad; the things HE DID and HE SAID to me whilst claiming to love me made him look bad because he is a selfish prick. I reread the post. It wasn’t hateful or dishonest in any way; I stated facts. However, I did take it down because I am a nice person. He ended up flying out from Chicago to Arizona, where I was then attending nursing school, and showing up uninvited on my doorstep on my birthday with a gift. Subsequently, we spent another few days together and after sleeping with me, he again threw me away. He flew home to Chicago and told me I’m ‘not worth dating long distance.’ Once again, this is not libel, it is pure fact. I am not misrepresenting him in any way. I have HIS WORDS saved in emails which I would be happy to forward to any woman who doesn’t believe my words. I don’t post this to vex him; I post this to save any other woman the heartache I had to survive. I won’t be taking it down again; it will be removed over my dead body (and in that case, he should be the prime suspect.) If DDHG believes my words to be too libelous, I’ll create a blog to save womankind from this dysfunctional ***. I am only here to warn other unsuspecting females from being destroyed by a man incapable of loving anyone other than himself. So here it is. Warning: I have dated this man and if given the choice between Ted Wilson and Ted Bundy, I’d pick Bundy. I’d rather be brutally murdered than ever again endure the emotional abuse Ted Wilson dishes out. Ted Bundy has more redeeming qualities than Ted Wilson; were Bundy still alive and I could save him from ‘Old Sparky’ and put Wilson in his place, I’d do it. Ted Wilson is less likely to be rehabilitated than a serial killer/rapist/necrophiliac and the pain he causes women lasts far longer. He is a serial emotional abuser and I have been his victim three times over five years. Don’t get involved with him; you will regret it. In conclusion, I will point out the fact that there is no list of offenders on my profile, there is only Ted. I am still quite friendly with most of the men I have dated during the 18 years I have been dating. I still talk to boyfriends from high school, I still meet friends from my twenties and spend time with them and their wives and kids. I am not a psycho who has one bad relationship after another. I loved this man, I had the balls to tell him that he was the only man I had ever loved enough to marry and he reacted to that information with the first of what would be MANY verbal daggers. He is the only person alive I can say I HATE. He hurt me intentionally because he knew he could. He is a LYING, USING, POS! Nothing more. That is ALL HE WILL EVER BE. Date him if you want. I don’t give a *** what or who he does, but ladies, when he fucks you and throws you away, don’t say I didn’t warn you” |
