This man is a sexual predator, and is charming as a snake. He can pick up a stranger in an instant and is constantly developing new relationships with women. He doesn't tell any woman that he has alll these women friends that he sleeps with. In fact, he'll say that you're the only one he has had a long-standing relationship with. No matter how many times I've broken things off, he frantically calls me and convinces me that he cares about me and that I'm really important to him. Problem is the relationship doesn't go anywhere. He spends little time with me and blames it on his job. I never know what he's doing, where he goes, or who he knows. He once admitted that he had over 25 women that would drop everything for the chance to go out with him. He treats women as if they are so important to him, then later says he has commitment phobia; yet doesn't ever let the relationship die. He makes promises to be of help but rarely is available. I sometimes wonder if I've been one of the 'other' women and he gives much of his time to someone he's seriously involved with. He has a way of making a woman feel 'trapped'. I think he has problems with sexual addiction. I've begged him to let me alone, indicating how unhappy and unfulfilled I am but he always manages to pull me back in. I feel as if I'm in a relationship by myself. He can be very cruel emotionally. This is a player indeed. If he's alone, it's difficult to know if someone is with him as he turns his ringer off so I never know what's going on. I never see anyone leave his place but maybe he's lucky in timing when women come and go. I don't know. I just feel trapped. In 5 years, he said he loved me one time. When I'm not around him , I'm happy but then he always pulls me back in. He says he believes in God but I catch him at lies a lot. I think he's also a pathological liar. I'd like to believe that he is mentally ill rather than an evil person. The latter gives me the chills and is tougher to deal with mentally. |
