Be careful ladies! He's a handsome guy who comes off as intelligent, sweet, and genuine. He talks a really good game to lure you in. Early on, he's great and comes on strong, but once things start to progress, all the relationship effort falls on your shoulders. You'll soon find out he does not make time for you but will say enough to make you think he is still interested. In reality, he pursues you, tries to seduce you, acts like he's into the relationship, then becomes inconsistent, misleads you and drops you abruptly. He can be rude, mean, lacking in etiquette, standoffish, uncommunicative and uncaring when you try to treat him nicely and with kindness. He's not looking for a real relationship and lacks that relationship discipline. He's a user and a player who will bail on you - A womanizer who goes from female to female for a hook up, then fades away and moves on to the next gal. He has no problems taking advantage of you. He can mooch off of you with hardly a thank you and can be selfish. He'll rarely pay compliments but will not have a problem being critical and negatively judgmental of you. The guy has unresolved issues from a divorce and is not over his ex-wife yet. He carries these issues and his cynicism into his present relationships. He used his divorce as an excuse for not being able to commit. Don't believe everything he said! He just wants to sleep around and uses that to justify what he is doing. The guy is deceitful and shady and capable of pulling all sorts of different shenanigans on you. He lead me on in more ways than one. From the beginning, I made it known to him that smoking is a non-negotiable for me and he had advertised himself in his personals profile as a non-smoker. However, he indeed is a smoker, and I learned about this way too late to save me from wasting my time and money in the relationship. If you find yourself dating him and need some help or 411 to deal with whatever may be the situation please feel free to contact me. I wish that no one else goes through what I went through. |
