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Emotionally and at times physically abusive(forced himself sexually). No respect for women. He maintains a nice unassuming front, but hiding some dark issues that I sadly put up with for too long. If I can help warn anyone else who might cross paths with this person, I'd feel like I did something to put a stop to his abuse. Tried uploading his texts? Having trouble. Here are examples I'll quote:

James Jeter: I'm drunk. If you come over I'll do anal. that's it.
The next time you come over expect that!

James Jeter: I saw your car and I wanted to use you for sex(this was an afternoon at 11am).

He had a sick obsession with, often threatening to force himself on me in ways I was never going to be ok with (see above quote). He must've "mentioned"(aggressively threatened) to do it non-stop the first 2years we were seeing each other. I was relieved when he finally gave up on the subject, knowing I wouldn't allow it. Then one night(valentine's, how sweet) he shoved himself in me with no warning and claimed it was accident. I was terrified and curled up in the fetal position crying in horrible pain. He only consoles me enough so he can force me to go down on him and finish what I started. It's horrible to think of the things I did/tolerated. I'm terribly ashamed and don't know if I'll ever recover the emotional damage I endured.

I know, what's wrong with me for staying and putting up with it.. I just hoped he wasn't meaning it. I wanted to believe him when he played the nice guy, but it was only to lure me back. He knew I was weak and "optimistic" and took advantage. I was naive and he was only looking out for himself/his needs. Please be careful, this went on for almost 5years. Scary! I'm not sure if he's able contain that kind of anger for long. I hope he's gotten help and that his future gf will never have to see that side.

Good luck!