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9/18/2012 06:38AM - Elaineanderson65 - been talking with this guy from dating site, still similar mo but says his cancer was fifteen years ago, days doesn't drive cause he have his car away, butif you look you see he no doubt lost his license for a couple dwi's.Again never seems to He sounds like an upstanding guy or so he says , he never call during day but rather one am, yet he's home from work at ten, so what gives. Told me he's been single a year yet he just got added to this site in July...hmmmm maybe i got lucky to find this before i got played again, once bitten twice shy, does he still have that gf i wonder? i mean two purple hearts from being shot on active duty, wonder if that's true

9/19/2012 10:05AM - Elaineanderson65 - wait new update as of two am, his cancer is back....or is it....

2/06/2013 04:59PM - T2theB - Ladies- I dated this guy for a few months a couple years ago, not sure what I was thinking. The whole I have cancer card pulled on my heart strings. NO he does not have cancer, I still don't know if he really did or what is how he explained his 1 ball issue. He is always working on lining up the next girl. Pretty much everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie, except for the fact he does not drive, 2 DWIs in 2 weeks of each other would do that, and he does have 5 lovely children. He has some good qualities -he got me to stop smoking and still smoke free- but be aware and get out now while you can. He is a nice person but so missed up in relationships. I think he even lives with someone now and still tries to reach out for all the "wrong reasons". Buyer Beware =)

8/26/2013 11:31AM - Onion - I just met this guy on Match. He seemed pretty great. He would text me all day. His story matched, 5 kids, cancer at 26, said he had 4 purple hearts, didn't drive because he loaned his daughter his car for school. He did tell me about the 2 DWI's in one week. He brought me to his work and showed me around the kitchen and everyone seemed to like him. He brought me over to his house last night and gave me a tour, he kept stumbling and fell once. I confronted him about his drinking and he passed out. Then I noticed all the white caps all over the floor. So I peeked in his closet and saw bottles and bottles of vodka. He's a highly functioning alcoholic. He goes to work every day, but he is drunk all day, every day. I offered to help and gave him lots of resources and his response was "Bye". Nice guy, but needs to get help for his drinking problem.

9/23/2013 04:42PM - Unreal - To Onion: I also got a tour of the restaurant on 8/25/13. I was there about 7-9:00 p.m., so I assume you went to his house after he got off work that night. Yes, he does have a drinking problem. And to clear a few things up: 1-His license is revoked 2-He doesn't own a car 3-He is an alcoholic 4-He did get 2 DWI's within a few weeks of each other 5-He was in the Army, but never deployed and received NO medals. I have no idea if he had cancer or not. He is a really nice guy, who seems like he is trying to get his life together, but NEEDS to stop drinking and lying.

9/24/2013 12:43AM - Former drunk guy - I wantd to take the time to apologize to all of you, especially Unreal. You are all correct that I hav a drinking problem. I have been trying to fix it and have been doing well so far with some help from a good friend and a great woman. I thought things were going well with her until she read the post from Onion today and it kinda all fell apart. Onion you are 100% right about what you are saying and I can\'t deny it. I am tryin to get better. I am sorry for my past. I know I have a bright future if I don\'t drink. Again I am sorry for any hurt I have cuased any of yo, especially Unreal. Nature will take it\'s course and I know who I want to be with. If it happens I don\'t plan on messing up with her. Thank you. Paul

1/16/2014 06:04PM - Trainergall007 - Ok....I just found this but I am surprised at how many women have fallen for this guy!! I felt like a total fool. I'd like to say that I feel glad that I was not the only one, but I feel horrible that you all went through this like I did. It was a few years ago, around Halloween 2009 I think, I met him online. We only dated for about a month because his crazy came out very quickly. I guess I am too nice because I over looked so many red flags!! Taking a cab to our first date, drinking til he couldn't stand up, calling at all hours, prank calling my work number (that I never gave him) just so he knew I was at work when I said I was!! Yikes. He didn't tell me about the DWI's, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out!! I knew NOTHING about kids....I wonder how many he had back then!! All his stories were pity stories about how he was cheated on or taken advantage of by women! It only took about 2 weeks to figure out that he was that "story" guy! He has a story that is bigger and better than everyone else's about Everything!! Unbelievable!! I ended it after I took a trip out of state and he called me every half hour to make sure I wasn't with someone else!!! He told me the cancer thing too, said he was in remission. He asked me to take him to HCMC once for his annual blood test. He was giving me directions and we were No where near downtown Minneapolis when he told me to just drop him off at this gas station in the middle of an industrial park. I was late for work so I dropped him off. Ten minutes later he called and said that all was good!! Are you serious??? I have a medical background!! You do not get blood tests back that fast!! Especially not cancer tests! He lied so much that he couldn't even keep track of what he was saying!! UGH! I am so glad that I didn't waste any longer with him!! I hope that any other woman that meets him will Google his name and see all of this BEFORE she makes a huge mistake!!

1/26/2014 11:23PM - purehearted - Yes, many women have been duped by this excuse for a man. Yes he has five kids & I can't confirm they're all from his ex-wife. Poor woman. Raising them on her own. I dated him last spring & thankfully people looking out for me used their sources to give me the info to turn around & never look back. Looks like he is still playing the same game. I wasn't ever going to post anything on here but he just text messaged me again! I have not responded to his messages in months. In the first couple weeks he said I love you & told his brother he was going to propose! Just turn your back now!

10/13/2014 02:48PM - 4realnworse - After reading these entries today. i had to make a comment. To be honest, some of you may have been a bit too nice about Paul. Yes, at first, he is "NICE". But nice people DO not lie about having cancer, that their daughter is pregnant or making up the death of their father to get attention. They do not yell, swear, or try to be over-controlling to the point of abuse by texting and calling unstop. People who are "NICE" aren't this type of person. Nice people see their kids. He lies about everything! getting promotions, his role, his drinking. He also continues to text many exes and sends pictures of his parts. Its true among the exes. Beyond this, he is simply a jerk, narcissistic. all the signs of how he is in a relationship and all red flag indicators of a future abusers. He did physical hurt at least 2 exes I know of, and kicked a dog just out of spike. A nice person, NO WAY.

3/20/2015 11:46AM - DontBeDumb - Boo hoo, Paul. Not all alcoholics are pathological liars.

Story: Wounded in Action. He makes up various heroic acts.
Truth: When he was ten, he was playing with a handgun and was accidentally shot in the leg.

Story: He had cancer and it metastasized to his brain/lungs.
Truth: He DID have testicular cancer, but it did not metastasize. He is NOT dying. He does not need annual check-ups. He will tell you he is going to die, just to manipulate you.

Story: He CAN drive, but chooses not to because he gave his car to his daughter, was almost killed by a drunk driver, etc.
Truth: He had two DWIs and cannot drive.

Story: He is the Executive Chef at a restaurant. (And gets promoted--above Executive Chef?--almost weekly.
Truth: He is a sous chef.

Story: He has five kids.
Truth: He does. All with his ex-wife. And he doesn't see them or pay child support.

Fun fact: Minnesota court records are available online! For Free! Look him up, and see all there is to see. Including a recent Domestic Violence charge.

3/22/2015 01:42PM - Sick_of_beibg_used - I'm so glad I started this post to know I'm not the only one he fooled with his sick lies. I'm sorry to all the other women he has done this to and can't believe after all this he STILL is pulling this same crap!! He was a loser growing up and a bigger one now. And it runs in the family it seems as his brother began contacting me shortly after it happened pretending to be my friend. Then started texting me naked pics of himself. His poor wife. The whole family is SICK!!! His ex was smart to get away from him and seems to have been lucky enough to find a good man who helps take care of the children that Paul (PJ) doesn't. I hope his kids can overcome what a loser their father is. No wonder they want nothing to do with him!!! Karma is a bitch and I can't wait for the day all he has done comes back to haunt him. My mother passed away last year from cancer and I had a cancer scare myself this week (thankfully all came back normal) so his cancer lies really hit home now. Only a sick and totally demented person lies about that. Clearly who raised them didn't do the best job!!

11/30/2015 02:05PM - swenmonkey - Well Ladies he is at it again!!! Luckily I found this site before I got very far. Found him on POF and it says he is a Army Ranger and Chef in St. Paul. Both not true. I found him also on the MNcourts.gov and its scary. He kept telling me about the Rangers and He has continued to blow up my cell with texts and calls. And he hasn't even met me yet in person.

5/25/2016 12:20AM - Jjevans - I came across this post while trying to find out how an old friend died. Yes, I\'m positive we are talking about the same person. It seems as though Paul passed away on Sunday, 5/22/16.

6/01/2016 10:31AM - 4realnworse - yes Paul Miller accidentally downed on 5/22 on Lake Minnetonka while out on a party boat with employees for the restaurant he was working at. Clearly alcohol had to play a factor, as it did with everything he did.

6/01/2016 07:32PM - Liar liar liar liar - ^^^ Nice try, Paul.

There are no media stories about a drowning death.

Stop thinking women are stupid enough to believe the crap you think up.

Ladies, he\'s alive and the Paul Miller you\'re talking to is this Psycho.

6/02/2016 09:44AM - 4realnworse - Liar liar.. you don't know what you are talking about? What is your proof here? Here are some links that do seem to confirm this;
https://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2016/05/22/fatal-lake-minnetonka-medical-emergency/

His family members; brother and daughter also posted on facebook.
What are you talking about?

6/02/2016 11:03AM - Sick_of_beibg_used - I have to admit I'm skeptical too. The articles don't mention any name. His brother is as big of a pig as Paul and he couldn't stand Paul. He stole his brothers identity. His brother is an attention whore who cheats on his sweet wife of over 20 years. Karma finally caught up to him if he is indeed dead. I figured it would be from cancer since he liked to lie about it to every woman he met. Good riddance to that scumbag. The world will be a better place. I still would like to see proof as I wouldn't put it past him to fake his death. I'm a good and truly kind hearted person but no sympathy here after what he put me through!!!! I do feel bad for his children though and always have. Luckily their mother married a good man who cares for them. His kids couldn't stand him either. Whole situation is just sad.

6/02/2016 01:26PM - 4realnworse - Sick of being used - since you originally mentioned you traveled 1200 miles to see Paul several years back, you came from where he grew up (his first love as you mentioned). You must certainly have some contacts you can reach out to that will provide this affirmation you are looking for. No reason why his family members would post a fake death. Granted, Paul himself lied but it would be a bit much to think his own children and brother would also lie. Paul did pass away. Read his brothers write up that followed this several days later.

6/02/2016 05:27PM - Liar liar liar liar - Interesting the article lists neither an age not a name.

Got an obituary?

6/02/2016 08:33PM - Liar liar liar liar - It is true.

6/09/2016 12:42PM - Sick_of_beibg_used - Good riddance to that scumbag! Karms's a bitch. No tears here!!!